How Ticket to Ride Became Our Grandkids' Favorite Visit Tradition

Sunday game night started as a way to get the grandkids off their screens for an hour. It turned into the thing they ask about before they even walk in the door. Maya, Eli and Rosie come over every Sunday, and for a long time the hardest part was finding one game that all three of them could actually play together. Maya is 12 and wants strategy. Eli is 9 and wants to win. Rosie is 6 and wants to be included. Most games on our shelf served one of those three, not all of them. Then my husband Frank brought home the Asmodee Ticket to Ride board game, and everything changed.

I will be honest: I did not expect much. I have been a librarian for thirty years and I have seen a lot of family games come and go. But the first time we set up the board, all three of them leaned in at the same time. That almost never happens. The map is colorful, the little plastic trains are satisfying to hold, and the rules are simple enough that Rosie understood the basic idea in about ten minutes. Days of Wonder, the publisher, has been making this game for years, and it shows in how smoothly everything works.

The premise is simple. You collect colored train cards, claim routes on the map, and try to connect the cities on your destination tickets. The person with the most points at the end wins. There is no reading required, no complicated setup, and no player gets eliminated halfway through. That last part matters more than you might think. Rosie has never once had to sit and watch the other two finish a game, because everyone stays in until the final scoring.

What surprised me most is how the game changed the way the three of them talk to each other. Maya started explaining her strategy to Eli instead of just beating him. Eli started helping Rosie count her cards. Rosie started announcing her moves with total confidence, even when she was completely wrong. I have watched a lot of games at this table, and I have never seen a board game do that.

I have watched a lot of games at this table, and I have never seen a board game get three kids of three different ages to the same table, happily, for two hours straight.

The first Sunday we played, I expected maybe twenty minutes of interest before someone wandered off. We played for two hours. Frank, who usually needs to be talked into joining, played three games in a row without complaining once. The next Sunday, Maya asked if we could play again before she even took her coat off. By the third Sunday, Eli was drawing train routes on scrap paper during the week, planning his next game.

Part of what makes it work is the pace. A game takes about thirty to sixty minutes, which is long enough to feel like a real event and short enough that nobody gets bored. The turns move fast, so Rosie never has to wait too long between her moments. And because the board changes every game, the replay value is genuinely high. We have played it dozens of times now, and no two games have felt the same.

The components have held up well too. The cards have been shuffled, dropped, and occasionally chewed by the dog, and they still look good. The plastic trains are sturdy enough for small hands. The board folds flat and fits back in the box easily, which matters when you are putting it away at nine o'clock on a school night. Days of Wonder clearly put real care into the physical quality, and that is something I notice as someone who has owned games that fell apart after a few plays.

There are a few things I would tell any grandparent before buying it. The rules are simple, but Rosie needed help with the scoring at first, and that is fine. The game works best with three to five players, so it fits our table perfectly. And if you have a child who does not like losing, the first few games might have some big feelings. We solved that by playing as teams at first, with the adults paired with the kids, so everyone got to experience winning before they started competing on their own.

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If you are thinking about buying this for your own family, here is my honest advice. Buy it for the way it makes people sit down together, not for the points. The strategy is real enough to keep Maya interested, the luck is balanced enough to keep Eli hopeful, and the turns are quick enough to keep Rosie engaged. That is a hard combination to find. Days of Wonder has made a game that respects kids' intelligence while still being genuinely fun for adults, and that is why it has become the most requested box on our shelf.